To boost your confidence, focus on everything that is positive in you and think of all the things you are confident about. They don’t have to be big things. Think, write down, and work on yourself. Don't expect and wait that someone else will do it for you. Someone can guide you and help you understand what confidence is but the most important work needs to be done by you. You are the one who creates your own reality. Every day, do something positive that will boost your confidence. Every day, think of something positive about yourself.
Who you are today is the result of many influences from your parents, siblings, friends, teachers, movies, books, and everything you have seen and heard since childhood. Did your parents ever get mad at you for doing something wrong? Did you ever get punished? Were you ever told you were not good enough? All this leaves scars and puts holes in our self-confidence. The good news is that you can accept yourself as you are and take full control of how you want to be. You are the creator of your own life now. Yesterday is gone and the power of your own being is NOW.
Embrace yourself and focus on growing more skills and positive thoughts in you. With time, the doubts and fears will fade away. With actual accomplishments and a more capable brain, you will develop steel strong confidence and nothing will break it down. Love yourself and your endless potential, enjoy every moment of your life and look at every experience as an amazing learning opportunity that builds a stronger, confident you.
This blog post is a sampling of a larger essay written by, Coach Jana Sedlakova that is intended to give her clients a deeper perspective on the topics they wish to explore during all coaching sessions. Please contact Jana, if you would like to set-up a free consultation.